I met a girl in class the other day. She approached me and later ended up giving me her number. The next day I told her we should go out for drinks after class, which she agreed to. This "date" or whatever you wanna call it is 4 days away. should I call/text her between now and then?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
should i text/call her before we hang out?
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The proper answer is...
A real man would text a girl whenever he felt like it. He would not delve into tactical preparation
So basically, if you feel like texting this girl, do it... but do not come across as pathetic or needy. Keep it light and funny
Humour wins hearts.
A real man would text a girl whenever he felt like it. He would not delve into tactical preparation
So basically, if you feel like texting this girl, do it... but do not come across as pathetic or needy. Keep it light and funny
Humour wins hearts.
Johnnyventana
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No fkn way! Just show up. Be cool, yo.
You already made plans. There is anticipation which = good. Why ruin in? Unless you're texting to save her: there is a bomb in her building, I'm pretty sure whatever you have to say can wait for in person. Keep the anticipation. you only get one shot at 'new.'
You already made plans. There is anticipation which = good. Why ruin in? Unless you're texting to save her: there is a bomb in her building, I'm pretty sure whatever you have to say can wait for in person. Keep the anticipation. you only get one shot at 'new.'
ELMER_GANTRY
Don Juan
just show up for your date, you already made plans for the drinks.