I met a girl in class the other day. She approached me and later ended up giving me her number. The next day I told her we should go out for drinks after class, which she agreed to. This "date" or whatever you wanna call it is 4 days away. should I call/text her between now and then?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
should i text/call her before we hang out?
- Thread starter duke104
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The proper answer is...
A real man would text a girl whenever he felt like it. He would not delve into tactical preparation
So basically, if you feel like texting this girl, do it... but do not come across as pathetic or needy. Keep it light and funny
Humour wins hearts.
A real man would text a girl whenever he felt like it. He would not delve into tactical preparation
So basically, if you feel like texting this girl, do it... but do not come across as pathetic or needy. Keep it light and funny
Humour wins hearts.
Johnnyventana
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No fkn way! Just show up. Be cool, yo.
You already made plans. There is anticipation which = good. Why ruin in? Unless you're texting to save her: there is a bomb in her building, I'm pretty sure whatever you have to say can wait for in person. Keep the anticipation. you only get one shot at 'new.'
You already made plans. There is anticipation which = good. Why ruin in? Unless you're texting to save her: there is a bomb in her building, I'm pretty sure whatever you have to say can wait for in person. Keep the anticipation. you only get one shot at 'new.'
ELMER_GANTRY
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just show up for your date, you already made plans for the drinks.