Ill be graduating soon and I will be leaving to college while this girl stays to finish up high school. I always flirted with her throughout the year and we got really close but I never got a chance to tell her how I feel. Anyways do you think i should tell her before I leave or should I not say anything and just move on with life?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Should i tell this girl how I feel on the last day of high school?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do it right now, while there's still school going on. Don't wait so long.
Time is the most precious time in life, and you can't waste it. Every second waiting is a second you will never ever have back. She's waiting for you, make the move.
Time is the most precious time in life, and you can't waste it. Every second waiting is a second you will never ever have back. She's waiting for you, make the move.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
How about instead of "telling her how you feel" you just ask her on a date?
Way easier and sets you up with a chance to kiss her, instead of expecting her to have feelings for you already.
Way easier and sets you up with a chance to kiss her, instead of expecting her to have feelings for you already.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
A big over done expression of affection like you see in the media/movies etc rarely works out how you want it to. Just ask her out on a casual date, dont make it a big deal because then you're risking her feel embarrassed about the whole thing.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ok 1st off, you shouldn't be searching for anything close to a relationship if you are leaving school. I've missed my chance with wonderful girls by asking them out right before school's out (knowing we'd have no contact during the summer).
2nd, don't tell her how you feel. Show her! I've told girls how I felt about them, and that's gotten me nowhere. Action has gotten me girls. Make a move! Inaction is your worst enemy, especially right now.
2nd, don't tell her how you feel. Show her! I've told girls how I felt about them, and that's gotten me nowhere. Action has gotten me girls. Make a move! Inaction is your worst enemy, especially right now.