Ill be graduating soon and I will be leaving to college while this girl stays to finish up high school. I always flirted with her throughout the year and we got really close but I never got a chance to tell her how I feel. Anyways do you think i should tell her before I leave or should I not say anything and just move on with life?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Should i tell this girl how I feel on the last day of high school?
- Thread starter Fighter95
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Do it right now, while there's still school going on. Don't wait so long.
Time is the most precious time in life, and you can't waste it. Every second waiting is a second you will never ever have back. She's waiting for you, make the move.
Time is the most precious time in life, and you can't waste it. Every second waiting is a second you will never ever have back. She's waiting for you, make the move.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
How about instead of "telling her how you feel" you just ask her on a date?
Way easier and sets you up with a chance to kiss her, instead of expecting her to have feelings for you already.
Way easier and sets you up with a chance to kiss her, instead of expecting her to have feelings for you already.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
A big over done expression of affection like you see in the media/movies etc rarely works out how you want it to. Just ask her out on a casual date, dont make it a big deal because then you're risking her feel embarrassed about the whole thing.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Ok 1st off, you shouldn't be searching for anything close to a relationship if you are leaving school. I've missed my chance with wonderful girls by asking them out right before school's out (knowing we'd have no contact during the summer).
2nd, don't tell her how you feel. Show her! I've told girls how I felt about them, and that's gotten me nowhere. Action has gotten me girls. Make a move! Inaction is your worst enemy, especially right now.
2nd, don't tell her how you feel. Show her! I've told girls how I felt about them, and that's gotten me nowhere. Action has gotten me girls. Make a move! Inaction is your worst enemy, especially right now.