Ill be graduating soon and I will be leaving to college while this girl stays to finish up high school. I always flirted with her throughout the year and we got really close but I never got a chance to tell her how I feel. Anyways do you think i should tell her before I leave or should I not say anything and just move on with life?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Should i tell this girl how I feel on the last day of high school?
- Thread starter Fighter95
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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Do it right now, while there's still school going on. Don't wait so long.
Time is the most precious time in life, and you can't waste it. Every second waiting is a second you will never ever have back. She's waiting for you, make the move.
Time is the most precious time in life, and you can't waste it. Every second waiting is a second you will never ever have back. She's waiting for you, make the move.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
How about instead of "telling her how you feel" you just ask her on a date?
Way easier and sets you up with a chance to kiss her, instead of expecting her to have feelings for you already.
Way easier and sets you up with a chance to kiss her, instead of expecting her to have feelings for you already.
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
A big over done expression of affection like you see in the media/movies etc rarely works out how you want it to. Just ask her out on a casual date, dont make it a big deal because then you're risking her feel embarrassed about the whole thing.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok 1st off, you shouldn't be searching for anything close to a relationship if you are leaving school. I've missed my chance with wonderful girls by asking them out right before school's out (knowing we'd have no contact during the summer).
2nd, don't tell her how you feel. Show her! I've told girls how I felt about them, and that's gotten me nowhere. Action has gotten me girls. Make a move! Inaction is your worst enemy, especially right now.
2nd, don't tell her how you feel. Show her! I've told girls how I felt about them, and that's gotten me nowhere. Action has gotten me girls. Make a move! Inaction is your worst enemy, especially right now.