"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I talk to girls that I can get but not attracted to?

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ok, so as it goes, I currently participate in 6 different dance lessons, therefor I get to talk to lots of girls who I am interested in but most of them have boyfriends, and then there are other single girls that are attracted to me, but my standards are just above them, and I can only see them as friend, so how should I handle this?

I know for sure I can go out easily with them but there is part of me that is stopping me from going that route, by the way I approach other places too, and am currently dating other girls too, however, its just that I just started this path 6 months ago, and never dated until last month so the concept is still new to me..
I can also get free instant date almost everyday as they serve free vegen food in campus, and its just a matter of getting in the line and doing my thing,

So, how would DJ handle this situation? should I make them friend or should I just avoid them like a plague?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Practice makes perfect and UGs are good training wheels. Keep shooting higher though or you will just perfect the art of picking up warpigs.
 
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Yes!!! Not so attractive girls can have attractive friends.... expand your network brother!!!

HAve you seen that movie "how to be a player"? Hehehe really slack, but they say, go talk to the fat one in the group of girls and her hot friends will think you're a nice guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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D!ck Ramsey said:
Practice makes perfect and UGs are good training wheels. Keep shooting higher though or you will just perfect the art of picking up warpigs.
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Well put!
 
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