"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I talk to girls that I can get but not attracted to?

Canadien

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ok, so as it goes, I currently participate in 6 different dance lessons, therefor I get to talk to lots of girls who I am interested in but most of them have boyfriends, and then there are other single girls that are attracted to me, but my standards are just above them, and I can only see them as friend, so how should I handle this?

I know for sure I can go out easily with them but there is part of me that is stopping me from going that route, by the way I approach other places too, and am currently dating other girls too, however, its just that I just started this path 6 months ago, and never dated until last month so the concept is still new to me..
I can also get free instant date almost everyday as they serve free vegen food in campus, and its just a matter of getting in the line and doing my thing,

So, how would DJ handle this situation? should I make them friend or should I just avoid them like a plague?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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D!ck Ramsey

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Practice makes perfect and UGs are good training wheels. Keep shooting higher though or you will just perfect the art of picking up warpigs.
 

dj trainee

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Yes!!! Not so attractive girls can have attractive friends.... expand your network brother!!!

HAve you seen that movie "how to be a player"? Hehehe really slack, but they say, go talk to the fat one in the group of girls and her hot friends will think you're a nice guy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

tsmith2334

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D!ck Ramsey said:
Practice makes perfect and UGs are good training wheels. Keep shooting higher though or you will just perfect the art of picking up warpigs.
Well put!
 
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