"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I talk to girls that I can get but not attracted to?

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ok, so as it goes, I currently participate in 6 different dance lessons, therefor I get to talk to lots of girls who I am interested in but most of them have boyfriends, and then there are other single girls that are attracted to me, but my standards are just above them, and I can only see them as friend, so how should I handle this?

I know for sure I can go out easily with them but there is part of me that is stopping me from going that route, by the way I approach other places too, and am currently dating other girls too, however, its just that I just started this path 6 months ago, and never dated until last month so the concept is still new to me..
I can also get free instant date almost everyday as they serve free vegen food in campus, and its just a matter of getting in the line and doing my thing,

So, how would DJ handle this situation? should I make them friend or should I just avoid them like a plague?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Practice makes perfect and UGs are good training wheels. Keep shooting higher though or you will just perfect the art of picking up warpigs.
 
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Yes!!! Not so attractive girls can have attractive friends.... expand your network brother!!!

HAve you seen that movie "how to be a player"? Hehehe really slack, but they say, go talk to the fat one in the group of girls and her hot friends will think you're a nice guy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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D!ck Ramsey said:
Practice makes perfect and UGs are good training wheels. Keep shooting higher though or you will just perfect the art of picking up warpigs.
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Well put!
 
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