"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I show more interest or what?

Bonafide

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I mean like a few chicks will playfully flirt with me...but I get this sense that they are just ****ing around because im a pretty attractive guy but I dont ask girls out or anything like that...so I Get this feeling that they are suspicious of me and are just trying to play me to get a reaction or something and it really bothers me because I want to make a move and f4ck their brains out but im afraid dat if I do try to do so they might just turn and laugh at me...but like they might flirt with me for two days and then the next few days not even say a word to me, maybe jus some slight eye contact...and then these few girls will start the flirting again
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ARrocket

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n00bPimp said:
Do a search on value creation. These girls maybe a little attracted to you physically but dont see you as a sex partner. They don't see you as having much value to them. Create some value and they you will be getting punani left and right
I'm having trouble finding a good thread on it...could you direct us to a thread?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Here is my advice. Try taking it to another level. Come back and report with what happend.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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