"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I show more interest or what?

Bonafide

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I mean like a few chicks will playfully flirt with me...but I get this sense that they are just ****ing around because im a pretty attractive guy but I dont ask girls out or anything like that...so I Get this feeling that they are suspicious of me and are just trying to play me to get a reaction or something and it really bothers me because I want to make a move and f4ck their brains out but im afraid dat if I do try to do so they might just turn and laugh at me...but like they might flirt with me for two days and then the next few days not even say a word to me, maybe jus some slight eye contact...and then these few girls will start the flirting again
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket

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n00bPimp said:
Do a search on value creation. These girls maybe a little attracted to you physically but dont see you as a sex partner. They don't see you as having much value to them. Create some value and they you will be getting punani left and right
I'm having trouble finding a good thread on it...could you direct us to a thread?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Here is my advice. Try taking it to another level. Come back and report with what happend.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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