"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Black Casanova

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I never had a g/f before but using this stuff has helped.

But the girl I think likes me, I dont really like that much.
Should I just ask her out for social proof or whatever?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Porky

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no. you won't be happy.
 

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As the above poster said, using a girl for "practice" is a pretty good idea. My first relationship was with a girl that I was into, but most of it was spent experimenting with lots of firsts. Now I'm prepared for future relationships, and I won't have to worry about kissing/etc. at all now.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
As the above poster said, using a girl for "practice" is a pretty good idea. My first relationship was with a girl that I was into, but most of it was spent experimenting with lots of firsts. Now I'm prepared for future relationships, and I won't have to worry about kissing/etc. at all now.
Don't let her trick you though get out when it starts to become scary!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jonny football hero

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Fck social proof. Do what you want.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
Fck social proof. Do what you want.

That's what I'm talking about. :D
 

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Originally posted by Interpol
I would usually say no...But if you've never been in a relationship before, it might be a good idea to get some "practice" if you know what I'm saying.
I agree with this. If you have a girlfriend you will get noticed.

Its kinda like publicity:

Any publicity is good publicity
 

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Never.
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by Vincent
Any publicity is good publicity
Immediately Michael Jackson comes to mind. Any time you see this guy on the news, you know it's about him and kinds.. and they're not his.

Tell the girl you just want to mess around (so you can practice), and you're not looking for a relationship becuase you don't have the time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LikRetsam

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Originally posted by AC/DC
you're not looking for a relationship becuase you don't have the time.
No comment.

**** buddy is a good idea.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Something to consider:

People tend to settle for things that they believe they worth. ;)
 

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NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT YOU WANT
 
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