"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should i send this txt to this chick in my class?

gimmeyofonenumba

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quick bg of this girl: she's in my class, real quiet, doesnt speak out loud, like a 6.5/10 good body. I was talking with her before spring break, she gave me her number telling me i should call if i need help on hw. I called she played phone tag. Never hung out. (But she does leave really nice msgs lol)we get a 10 min break during class, i usually talk with her on break. Today however I walk out the class and she's on the phone, and the hb of the class(like a 8.5/10) calls out to me and we talk for a few mins, this is right in front of the girl im gaming. Finally i end the convo with the hb, and go and sit on a bench like 2 ft from the girl on the phone. She remains on the phone and hangs up when the break is over, and looks over at me and says "aww break is already over". Even when i go inside the class the hb8.5 is still talking to me out loud right in front of phone girl.

Im thinking of just texting phone girl and saying something like "i really wanted to talk to you on break" I dont think i need to be really c&f or anything with her. BtW hb8.5 is off limits she's actually has a kid and a bf.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Take the bull by the horns, go for it don't stay idle thinking should i txt her...

ring her arrange a date.....

if she flakes next! no point for a 6.5 my friend
 

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Modro said:
Take the bull by the horns, go for it don't stay idle thinking should i txt her...

ring her arrange a date.....

if she flakes next! no point for a 6.5 my friend
alright dudes i may ring her later today or tommorow. Being that its the weekend already when and where should i arrange for?
 

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Whenever you want to bro, your the man take charge of the situation if you want this to happen do so on your terms...

(be careful about prearranged plans she might have though)

I suggest a saying "I am free wednesday evening... etc"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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