"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should i send this txt to this chick in my class?

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quick bg of this girl: she's in my class, real quiet, doesnt speak out loud, like a 6.5/10 good body. I was talking with her before spring break, she gave me her number telling me i should call if i need help on hw. I called she played phone tag. Never hung out. (But she does leave really nice msgs lol)we get a 10 min break during class, i usually talk with her on break. Today however I walk out the class and she's on the phone, and the hb of the class(like a 8.5/10) calls out to me and we talk for a few mins, this is right in front of the girl im gaming. Finally i end the convo with the hb, and go and sit on a bench like 2 ft from the girl on the phone. She remains on the phone and hangs up when the break is over, and looks over at me and says "aww break is already over". Even when i go inside the class the hb8.5 is still talking to me out loud right in front of phone girl.

Im thinking of just texting phone girl and saying something like "i really wanted to talk to you on break" I dont think i need to be really c&f or anything with her. BtW hb8.5 is off limits she's actually has a kid and a bf.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Take the bull by the horns, go for it don't stay idle thinking should i txt her...

ring her arrange a date.....

if she flakes next! no point for a 6.5 my friend
 

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Modro said:
Take the bull by the horns, go for it don't stay idle thinking should i txt her...

ring her arrange a date.....

if she flakes next! no point for a 6.5 my friend
alright dudes i may ring her later today or tommorow. Being that its the weekend already when and where should i arrange for?
 

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Whenever you want to bro, your the man take charge of the situation if you want this to happen do so on your terms...

(be careful about prearranged plans she might have though)

I suggest a saying "I am free wednesday evening... etc"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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