"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should i send this txt to this chick in my class?

gimmeyofonenumba

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quick bg of this girl: she's in my class, real quiet, doesnt speak out loud, like a 6.5/10 good body. I was talking with her before spring break, she gave me her number telling me i should call if i need help on hw. I called she played phone tag. Never hung out. (But she does leave really nice msgs lol)we get a 10 min break during class, i usually talk with her on break. Today however I walk out the class and she's on the phone, and the hb of the class(like a 8.5/10) calls out to me and we talk for a few mins, this is right in front of the girl im gaming. Finally i end the convo with the hb, and go and sit on a bench like 2 ft from the girl on the phone. She remains on the phone and hangs up when the break is over, and looks over at me and says "aww break is already over". Even when i go inside the class the hb8.5 is still talking to me out loud right in front of phone girl.

Im thinking of just texting phone girl and saying something like "i really wanted to talk to you on break" I dont think i need to be really c&f or anything with her. BtW hb8.5 is off limits she's actually has a kid and a bf.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Take the bull by the horns, go for it don't stay idle thinking should i txt her...

ring her arrange a date.....

if she flakes next! no point for a 6.5 my friend
 

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Modro said:
Take the bull by the horns, go for it don't stay idle thinking should i txt her...

ring her arrange a date.....

if she flakes next! no point for a 6.5 my friend
alright dudes i may ring her later today or tommorow. Being that its the weekend already when and where should i arrange for?
 

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Whenever you want to bro, your the man take charge of the situation if you want this to happen do so on your terms...

(be careful about prearranged plans she might have though)

I suggest a saying "I am free wednesday evening... etc"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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