"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should I send flowers to my ex?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ValleyDJing
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Dude, I wouldn't tell her the true story or you're not gonna get any.itishe said:
Kev07
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she's just trying to prod you for gifts.
She bought me gifts for my B-day about two weeks in advance of my B-day. She told me about it. But since we weren't going out and we didn't talk about if we'd be just FB's or what I ended up making out with two of her good friends, and the next week finger ****ing one of them. This pissed her off so she decided to not sedt my present to me. Things came around and she sent it out about 3 days ago.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Listen dude...if you send her flowers to make YOU feel good...then no harm done.
We are not talking here some random chick you just met and she appears to be thoughful enough as to send you something for your birthday.
I do believe, however...that you are paying WAY too much attention to an EX that lives far away. Neglecting some potential girls near by.
Latino I agree I pay her more attention that she deserves, but then again she's the one always trying to get ahold of me. I can't sign into MSN without her eventually messaging me after 5-10 minutes (she expects me to do it and when I don't she caves in and messages me) and after she'll call me during the day she expects me to call her that night!Latinoman said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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After we broke up we had about a month of silence, then we had brief conversation that went sour real quick. She came back to town from college for Christmas, she was giving every girl that I hang out with glares and would freak out if her friends would bring her to a party I was at. Anywho eventually one night at a party she kept being playfully mean to me and I kept brushing her off.
She'd do her drunken drama, "why are you such a prick to me all the time ITISHE". I'd laugh and her and she'd keep getting closer to me, and holding me and asking me to talk with her, I kept denying her that. Sooner or later we ended up just making out on the couch and I ended up ****ing her.
The funny thing is after she left for school again, we got into another fight one night. Anywho she was telling me, "you wouldn't believe how many people tell me to move on from you Itishe, but I just can't". haha that was classic.