"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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should i say sorry?

needsomehelp

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hey, i got a problem. id been seeing this girl for a couple of days. everything was running smoothly. i got invited to her graduation party. we went on a ride through the city on the back of a truck. she basically ignored me (making it clear she wanted to be with me as little as possible) and basically i got told i gotta give her space. when i got off, i was pretty drunk, pretty much told her that i wanna break up. i do regret it but i feel im not entirely at fault. i do wanna stay with her. what should i do?

so far im waiting it out, to see if she calls me. if she doesnt, what should i do? next?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gray_fox_9

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You were seeing a girl for a few days and you already broke up with her? Clearly you must have done something wrong. We are gonna need more details than that to help you out.....
 

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she wants space, and you are giving it to her. once she has enough "space" she will call you and let you know. In the meen time, go out and pickup chicks.
 

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dont really know what i did wrong. except made it clear that i wanted to be with her...

but **** it, ill go out tonight n get hooked up..
 
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Originally posted by needsomehelp
dont really know what i did wrong. except made it clear that i wanted to be with her.....
Only women say this -- men don't say shyt like this!!!!!! Of course you want to be with her - you are a man and you approached her -- this already tells a woman that you want her - you don't have to verbalize it!!!

Do not be a chump and call her!!!!! In fact if she calls wait at least 5 days to call her back unless she calls twice!!!

Originally posted by needsomehelp
dont really know what i did wrong...
So what are you "sorry" for????:rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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