"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i say sorry?

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hey, i got a problem. id been seeing this girl for a couple of days. everything was running smoothly. i got invited to her graduation party. we went on a ride through the city on the back of a truck. she basically ignored me (making it clear she wanted to be with me as little as possible) and basically i got told i gotta give her space. when i got off, i was pretty drunk, pretty much told her that i wanna break up. i do regret it but i feel im not entirely at fault. i do wanna stay with her. what should i do?

so far im waiting it out, to see if she calls me. if she doesnt, what should i do? next?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You were seeing a girl for a few days and you already broke up with her? Clearly you must have done something wrong. We are gonna need more details than that to help you out.....
 

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she wants space, and you are giving it to her. once she has enough "space" she will call you and let you know. In the meen time, go out and pickup chicks.
 

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dont really know what i did wrong. except made it clear that i wanted to be with her...

but **** it, ill go out tonight n get hooked up..
 
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Originally posted by needsomehelp
dont really know what i did wrong. except made it clear that i wanted to be with her.....
Only women say this -- men don't say shyt like this!!!!!! Of course you want to be with her - you are a man and you approached her -- this already tells a woman that you want her - you don't have to verbalize it!!!

Do not be a chump and call her!!!!! In fact if she calls wait at least 5 days to call her back unless she calls twice!!!

Originally posted by needsomehelp
dont really know what i did wrong...
So what are you "sorry" for????:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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