"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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needsomehelp

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hey, i got a problem. id been seeing this girl for a couple of days. everything was running smoothly. i got invited to her graduation party. we went on a ride through the city on the back of a truck. she basically ignored me (making it clear she wanted to be with me as little as possible) and basically i got told i gotta give her space. when i got off, i was pretty drunk, pretty much told her that i wanna break up. i do regret it but i feel im not entirely at fault. i do wanna stay with her. what should i do?

so far im waiting it out, to see if she calls me. if she doesnt, what should i do? next?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You were seeing a girl for a few days and you already broke up with her? Clearly you must have done something wrong. We are gonna need more details than that to help you out.....
 

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she wants space, and you are giving it to her. once she has enough "space" she will call you and let you know. In the meen time, go out and pickup chicks.
 

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dont really know what i did wrong. except made it clear that i wanted to be with her...

but **** it, ill go out tonight n get hooked up..
 
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Originally posted by needsomehelp
dont really know what i did wrong. except made it clear that i wanted to be with her.....
Only women say this -- men don't say shyt like this!!!!!! Of course you want to be with her - you are a man and you approached her -- this already tells a woman that you want her - you don't have to verbalize it!!!

Do not be a chump and call her!!!!! In fact if she calls wait at least 5 days to call her back unless she calls twice!!!

Originally posted by needsomehelp
dont really know what i did wrong...
So what are you "sorry" for????:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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