mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This should be a bible verse...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Should I reach out about her plans tonight (NYE)?
- Thread starter TheGambino
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Each time you fail, you need to improve yourself accordingly. Then you try again with a woman of the same caliber until you get her. But what normally happens is, as you improve, your options improve and by the time you can get that girl you'll prefer a hotter girl who is also elusive. That continues until you find someone at your true level. You are also preapproved by women at any level you succeed with. Then you have to master the art of maintaining them. So it's a long process that happens over many years. You won't just have your dream girl plop in your lap. It will happen so slowly you'll barely notice the progress. The same happens as your business and wealth grow. You don't just win the lottery.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.