mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This should be a bible verse...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Should I reach out about her plans tonight (NYE)?
- Thread starter TheGambino
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Each time you fail, you need to improve yourself accordingly. Then you try again with a woman of the same caliber until you get her. But what normally happens is, as you improve, your options improve and by the time you can get that girl you'll prefer a hotter girl who is also elusive. That continues until you find someone at your true level. You are also preapproved by women at any level you succeed with. Then you have to master the art of maintaining them. So it's a long process that happens over many years. You won't just have your dream girl plop in your lap. It will happen so slowly you'll barely notice the progress. The same happens as your business and wealth grow. You don't just win the lottery.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.