Each time you fail, you need to improve yourself accordingly. Then you try again with a woman of the same caliber until you get her. But what normally happens is, as you improve, your options improve and by the time you can get that girl you'll prefer a hotter girl who is also elusive. That continues until you find someone at your true level. You are also preapproved by women at any level you succeed with. Then you have to master the art of maintaining them. So it's a long process that happens over many years. You won't just have your dream girl plop in your lap. It will happen so slowly you'll barely notice the progress. The same happens as your business and wealth grow. You don't just win the lottery.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.