mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
This should be a bible verse...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Should I reach out about her plans tonight (NYE)?
- Thread starter TheGambino
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Each time you fail, you need to improve yourself accordingly. Then you try again with a woman of the same caliber until you get her. But what normally happens is, as you improve, your options improve and by the time you can get that girl you'll prefer a hotter girl who is also elusive. That continues until you find someone at your true level. You are also preapproved by women at any level you succeed with. Then you have to master the art of maintaining them. So it's a long process that happens over many years. You won't just have your dream girl plop in your lap. It will happen so slowly you'll barely notice the progress. The same happens as your business and wealth grow. You don't just win the lottery.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.
There is no get b!tch quick scheme.