"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I reach out about her plans tonight (NYE)?

mrgoodstuff

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Again...you don't get it.

Stop spending your time trying to make an uninterested woman interested and start spending it finding women who are interested. You'll get laid far more often trust me.
This should be a bible verse...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

bigneil

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Each time you fail, you need to improve yourself accordingly. Then you try again with a woman of the same caliber until you get her. But what normally happens is, as you improve, your options improve and by the time you can get that girl you'll prefer a hotter girl who is also elusive. That continues until you find someone at your true level. You are also preapproved by women at any level you succeed with. Then you have to master the art of maintaining them. So it's a long process that happens over many years. You won't just have your dream girl plop in your lap. It will happen so slowly you'll barely notice the progress. The same happens as your business and wealth grow. You don't just win the lottery.

There is no get b!tch quick scheme.
 
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