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A lot of people can't do that. I've never been fully remote. I've never overlapped jobs. I always submitted my notice after a signed offer letter with a new company.
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Should I Quit My Job? What’s Next? Part 2
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I actually decided against this. Makes things too messy. I am officially onboarded now, and I am off boarding at my old company.
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Future Career Goals
Since I’m officially onboarded at my new job, I wanted to post a list of my goals for my career going forward. Was thinking about this, and I wanted to get it on paper.
Since I’m officially onboarded at my new job, I wanted to post a list of my goals for my career going forward. Was thinking about this, and I wanted to get it on paper.
- Get a raise at the new six figure job. The recruiter hinted very strongly over the phone that there were many promotion opportunities. A raise for my performance, not a raise for inflation.
- I’m really sick and tired of interviewing + sending out resumes right now. I don’t wanna do it anymore lol. I’ll stay at this company for minimum 1 year, it’ll probably be closer to 2.
- The whole time, I am improving my resume, upskilling, getting new certs, practicing interviewing, and of course doing a stellar job at my current workplace. Get a fuego ass resume going and increase my market value. That way, when it comes time for me to move on and get a non-DOD role in that $150K-$200K range, I am totally ready with no stress or issues. Plus, if I’m upskilling the whole time, that causes my resume to get more hits when I spam apply. I’m of the mindset that these days, it’s better to be a Jack of All Trades so that your resume can get more hits.
- I would consider Overemployment only if I were good enough to do both jobs in 50-60 hours, or it were a short term thing to eliminate all debt and establish some super strong savings faster. At this stage, I value my free time a lot more. Also, I am DOD employed right now so there’s no way I can do Overemployed with that. I’d have to quit this current job first before I even considered that so if anything this would be a future thing.
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@BackInTheGame78 what was that really old programming language you mentioned? COBOL, iirc? I actually saw a few jobs requesting that when I was applying. They paid pretty well. I may have to learn that and get that on my resume one of these days lol.
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Yup, COBOL. Still used on mainframes for banks and insurance companies.
