“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Should I or Shouldn't I ?

European-DJ

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This girls is head over heals over me AFTER i have been ICE towards her..

Should i continue Being ice, or should i warm up a bit?

- I Am honestly clueless, if i warm up - IMHO - i think she will turn her back. If i stay ICE, i am scared about the results too..

I really dig this girl, i have been in love with her for ½ year, but a lot of **** has screwed around with the "relationship"..

I hope for some good advice.

Thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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f283000

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It's the dilemma we all face. We attract women being Don Juan's but the moment we let our "inner nice guy" out a bit they lose attraction for us and spit in our face.

The only thing I can recommend is to be careful. I have seen plenty of posts like yours in this forum where guys end up losing the girl for letting their inner nice guy out.

What you have to understand is this. She fell for a "certain" you and if you all of a sudden change then she has a right to be disappointed and lose interest. Just like if you fell for a beautiful girl who later turned into a fat pig so you ended up losing interest and dumping her.

I say continue doing what is making you happy. Is being ice with her making you happy? If so keep doing it.
 
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TheJazz

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When faced with a "Should I/Shouldn't I" dilemma, always default to action. Go for the Should I. If she stays with you despite your warming up, she's a keeper. If not, she never really liked you anyway. You might've ended up marrying this chick only to divorce her and be a bitter man who drinks alone in a death-hole of an apartment later on in life. Is that what you want? Dude, if it wasn't for a failure with a girl you didn't get; as in, if you were a natural who succeeded with every bird he came across, would you even be ON this forum right now improving yourself at an alarming rate? I think not. The only way up is down.
 
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