Should i message her?

[Physicist.]

So there's this girl that i quite like, we've been talking for only 2 weeks or so(though i knew her from school) and i had invited her on a date, she said she couldn't so like a week after i asked her out again, the message got to her but it isnt marked as "seen" on facebook, about 3 days have gone by. She either full blown ignored me (extremely likely) or she hasnt seen it for some reason(unlikely but i dint see her as the type to ignore me), i havent spoken to her since and I want to message her but on the other hand am resisting the urge quite well.
I should just move on right? It's hurting so much, no other girl in years made me feel so attracted to her f*ckkkk

 

[marmel75]

Dude...pull yourself together and stop being ridiculous.

 

[Billtx49]

I should just move on right?

Definitely. She's not feeling it.

 

[dustmuffin]

Move on, she is not interested

 

[Thorninmyside]

So there's this girl that i quite like, we've been talking for only 2 weeks or so(though i knew her from school) and i had invited her on a date, she said she couldn't so like a week after i asked her out again, the message got to her but it isnt marked as "seen" on facebook, about 3 days have gone by. She either full blown ignored me (extremely likely) or she hasnt seen it for some reason(unlikely but i dint see her as the type to ignore me), i havent spoken to her since and I want to message her but on the other hand am resisting the urge quite well.
I should just move on right? It's hurting so much, no other girl in years made me feel so attracted to her f*ckkkk

She read it, then marked it as unread, then clicked "ignore messages" so you don't ask her again. Move on.

 

[Daniel_March]

I know you are expecting that someone here will have a solution to this. But there is no magic bullet - no matter how much we all would want to believe that she just "did not read" the message. Come on - we've had "Delivered" "Seen" notifications on chat tools for so long that it is easy to read a message without actually opening it. Move on - plenty of girls out there.

P.S. if you really really really want to - contact her 2-3 weeks later - but the likelihood of her responding is very low.

 

[Glassguy]

Just ignore. Why punish yourself?

If you ever initiate messaging her again it looks extremely weak.

If you ignore and vanish, she MIGHT find some attraction to how you will walk away.

Remember that most women want what they cant have. Why put yourself out there as if she can have you whenever she "becomes available"?

I have chalked up numerous lays from doing this. A little chit chat and they go cold. So I vanish. Weeks later they message me and ask what I am doing this weekend. I say "Hey stranger, I have a very busy weekend coming up." At that point I vanish again if they dont say "well I was hoping we could get together for a drink".

Sorry, cant this weekend. Maybe next week. I will let you know.

Then I wait several days and reach out. "I have a rare free evening coming up on Wednesday. I am going to grab drinks if you want to join".
Or I just ignore again. Sometimes flipping the script will draw their attention but either way, you just move on to more chicks.

Move on.

 

[Physicist.]

thanks for not flaming me for being weak. I will move on boys