"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I learn to dance?

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Good morning everyone,

I am halfway through the Rational Male book and was going to the subreddit section to ask this question but I noticed it has been placed on quarantine. I have heard Rollo mention this forum on the book and wanted to see if everyone else is hanging out here.

My questions is that I do not know If I should spend money learning to dance. I have a Fred Astaire studio near me but it can get really expensive and what they teach is ballroom dancing. I have also a Latino dance studio and they teach stuff like Salsa and Bachata. I know dancing can be good and can definitely increase fitness levels. I also understand it can increase sex appeal for woman.

What are your thoughts? Is it worth spending a few hundred bucks to learn some moves?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do you want to learn?
 
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I'm not sure yet. Very inclined towards ballroom dancing.
 
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no. real chads go to clubs and wait till they get approach by girl that wants to dance. when this happens, he instead invites her over
 
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Definitely.Women love men that can dance. Proper dancing that is,not street dance.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Advice from the old lady:

YES! Learn to dance. Latin is best, swing & country western next best, then ballroom. Women LOVE to dance and enjoy men who can dance.

If you are a good dancer you’ll have an advantage. Women will want to dance with you. This gets you up close & personal with women & their bodies and you’ll learn a tremendous amount about women & you’ll gain a tremendous amount of self confidence from it. I married my ex husband largely because he was sexy and a great dancer. He also happened to own a nightclub so that was a cool perk, but he wasn’t as handsome as men I had dated previously (he was cute, no doubt), but he was confident, sexy and could move. Turns out he was also great in bed (bonus). I was a woman with more options than I could shake a stick at, and I dropped a professional male runway model in favor of my ex husband. Not kidding. The model was a wonderful man, utterly gorgeous, but so neurotic it was unreal. Ex hubby was confident and had a reserved sexy swagger to him. That was what won me over.

Learn to dance. Cannot stress enough the ways in which it will help you.
 
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