"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I learn to dance?

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Good morning everyone,

I am halfway through the Rational Male book and was going to the subreddit section to ask this question but I noticed it has been placed on quarantine. I have heard Rollo mention this forum on the book and wanted to see if everyone else is hanging out here.

My questions is that I do not know If I should spend money learning to dance. I have a Fred Astaire studio near me but it can get really expensive and what they teach is ballroom dancing. I have also a Latino dance studio and they teach stuff like Salsa and Bachata. I know dancing can be good and can definitely increase fitness levels. I also understand it can increase sex appeal for woman.

What are your thoughts? Is it worth spending a few hundred bucks to learn some moves?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do you want to learn?
 
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I'm not sure yet. Very inclined towards ballroom dancing.
 
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no. real chads go to clubs and wait till they get approach by girl that wants to dance. when this happens, he instead invites her over
 
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Definitely.Women love men that can dance. Proper dancing that is,not street dance.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Advice from the old lady:

YES! Learn to dance. Latin is best, swing & country western next best, then ballroom. Women LOVE to dance and enjoy men who can dance.

If you are a good dancer you’ll have an advantage. Women will want to dance with you. This gets you up close & personal with women & their bodies and you’ll learn a tremendous amount about women & you’ll gain a tremendous amount of self confidence from it. I married my ex husband largely because he was sexy and a great dancer. He also happened to own a nightclub so that was a cool perk, but he wasn’t as handsome as men I had dated previously (he was cute, no doubt), but he was confident, sexy and could move. Turns out he was also great in bed (bonus). I was a woman with more options than I could shake a stick at, and I dropped a professional male runway model in favor of my ex husband. Not kidding. The model was a wonderful man, utterly gorgeous, but so neurotic it was unreal. Ex hubby was confident and had a reserved sexy swagger to him. That was what won me over.

Learn to dance. Cannot stress enough the ways in which it will help you.
 
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