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Should I learn to dance?

YohanCol

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Good morning everyone,

I am halfway through the Rational Male book and was going to the subreddit section to ask this question but I noticed it has been placed on quarantine. I have heard Rollo mention this forum on the book and wanted to see if everyone else is hanging out here.

My questions is that I do not know If I should spend money learning to dance. I have a Fred Astaire studio near me but it can get really expensive and what they teach is ballroom dancing. I have also a Latino dance studio and they teach stuff like Salsa and Bachata. I know dancing can be good and can definitely increase fitness levels. I also understand it can increase sex appeal for woman.

What are your thoughts? Is it worth spending a few hundred bucks to learn some moves?
 

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Why do you want to learn?
 

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I'm not sure yet. Very inclined towards ballroom dancing.
 

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no. real chads go to clubs and wait till they get approach by girl that wants to dance. when this happens, he instead invites her over
 

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Definitely.Women love men that can dance. Proper dancing that is,not street dance.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Advice from the old lady:

YES! Learn to dance. Latin is best, swing & country western next best, then ballroom. Women LOVE to dance and enjoy men who can dance.

If you are a good dancer you’ll have an advantage. Women will want to dance with you. This gets you up close & personal with women & their bodies and you’ll learn a tremendous amount about women & you’ll gain a tremendous amount of self confidence from it. I married my ex husband largely because he was sexy and a great dancer. He also happened to own a nightclub so that was a cool perk, but he wasn’t as handsome as men I had dated previously (he was cute, no doubt), but he was confident, sexy and could move. Turns out he was also great in bed (bonus). I was a woman with more options than I could shake a stick at, and I dropped a professional male runway model in favor of my ex husband. Not kidding. The model was a wonderful man, utterly gorgeous, but so neurotic it was unreal. Ex hubby was confident and had a reserved sexy swagger to him. That was what won me over.

Learn to dance. Cannot stress enough the ways in which it will help you.
 
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