Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should I laugh it off or say something

mahon83050

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My friend (well I have known him for 26 years) but I do not consider him a good friend. He thinks it is funny I am on match.com, but I will not tell him my username.

He had some chick he works with e-mail me ( I found this out later, I did not know who the e-mail was from, but I figured he had something to do with it) pretending she was on match, but forgot my username and wanted it. The girl even sent me a pick. Later turns out it was all a joke and he put her up to it.

I am pissed off at this kid, but he has always been an instigator. Should I confront him or laugh it off. BTW, they never saw my profile.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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why do u care
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Julian

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Dude who cares. Id tell him to concern himself with more important matters, and if he has nothing better to do then he should reevaluate his current lifestyle, because it seems quite pathetic.
 

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I'd ask them 'both' if they had nothing better to do. But come off with a playful tone, show them you have a sense of humor and won't be bothered by silly games like that.

If it really did bother you, relax and let it roll off your back as Dukester put it.
 

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why not email her back, and tell her that her picture is very ugly, she never stands a chance. Then, snap a photo of that b*tch ass and put it up on Match as a gay guy. thatll show him.
 

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Originally posted by b's nuts
why not email her back, and tell her that her picture is very ugly, she never stands a chance. Then, snap a photo of that b*tch ass and put it up on Match as a gay guy. thatll show him.
Hey Mahon, been awhile. While I think B's suggestion is very funny. I believe that would be 'stooping to their level' and I know your above that. I wouldn't even consider this guy a friend. Why do you even hang out with him? I wouldn't even do anything back and forget about them. hang out with new people. If he continue's his little games then I think you may need to have a little fist to face talk.

Also, dating sites/services are catching on and starting to become 'acceptable' but most people it's still a stigma. While I'm with the crowd that says go out in person to meet women, i see no reason why you can't supplement your dating life.

One time I mentioned this site to a friend (i grew up with this guy) because I thought the advice on here would straighten his AFC'ness out. He looked at me like I was crazy. Some people just aren't open minded enough. Some things you just gotta keep to yourself I guess. Good Luck.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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