"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I just start approaching groups of girls?

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Alright, so me and the friend go out to this hangout place with a lot of stores and a lot people and thus a lot of hot girls. But the problem, most of the girls we saw there were in groups. This wouldn't be such a problem if I was familiar with gaming multiple sets. See, most of my experience talking to girls has been talking to girls who are alone, so that's it's a one on one thing.

My question with approaching groups is, how would you actually take it somewhere? How would you convey you're sexually interested in one girl and not another? I've seen many groups of girls where there's one hot girl, but the friend isn't so hot. How do you over all isolate the situation so you can get the digits of the girl's number that you're interested in?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yes, approach a group of girls or any girl(s) your interested in.

ElStud, I want you to try something out..

Forget about all the PUA/Player sh!t for a second. Just go up to these girls with no intentions of trying to seduce them. Get to know them like you would with anybody. The less your worrying in your head about what to say or wondering if they like me. The more easier the situation becomes.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Yes, approach a group of girls or any girl(s) your interested in.

ElStud, I want you to try something out..

Forget about all the PUA/Player sh!t for a second. Just go up to these girls with no intentions of trying to seduce them. Get to know them like you would with anybody. The less your worrying in your head about what to say or wondering if they like me. The more easier the situation becomes.
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Well my intentions are already limited. I'm not that guy who approaches girls with the intent of sex and numbers. But I figure if I approach I might as well make it go somewhere which why I asked how to isolate her from her friend.
 
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ELSTUD!!!!! READ THIS start from chapter 7 and read to the end . it answers a LOT of your questions. DO NOT try and follow its methods exactly as they are laid out but try and read between the lines and get some understanding.


you should probably also read pages that are before chapter 7 as they explain a lot too. But yeah if my memory serves me right, chapter 7 and 8 explain alot of the problems you have posted on here concerning flakes and numbers and groups of chicks, so READ AND APPLY...............
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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