"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Should I just start approaching groups of girls?

ElStud

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Alright, so me and the friend go out to this hangout place with a lot of stores and a lot people and thus a lot of hot girls. But the problem, most of the girls we saw there were in groups. This wouldn't be such a problem if I was familiar with gaming multiple sets. See, most of my experience talking to girls has been talking to girls who are alone, so that's it's a one on one thing.

My question with approaching groups is, how would you actually take it somewhere? How would you convey you're sexually interested in one girl and not another? I've seen many groups of girls where there's one hot girl, but the friend isn't so hot. How do you over all isolate the situation so you can get the digits of the girl's number that you're interested in?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, approach a group of girls or any girl(s) your interested in.

ElStud, I want you to try something out..

Forget about all the PUA/Player sh!t for a second. Just go up to these girls with no intentions of trying to seduce them. Get to know them like you would with anybody. The less your worrying in your head about what to say or wondering if they like me. The more easier the situation becomes.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Yes, approach a group of girls or any girl(s) your interested in.

ElStud, I want you to try something out..

Forget about all the PUA/Player sh!t for a second. Just go up to these girls with no intentions of trying to seduce them. Get to know them like you would with anybody. The less your worrying in your head about what to say or wondering if they like me. The more easier the situation becomes.
Well my intentions are already limited. I'm not that guy who approaches girls with the intent of sex and numbers. But I figure if I approach I might as well make it go somewhere which why I asked how to isolate her from her friend.
 

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ELSTUD!!!!! READ THIS start from chapter 7 and read to the end . it answers a LOT of your questions. DO NOT try and follow its methods exactly as they are laid out but try and read between the lines and get some understanding.


you should probably also read pages that are before chapter 7 as they explain a lot too. But yeah if my memory serves me right, chapter 7 and 8 explain alot of the problems you have posted on here concerning flakes and numbers and groups of chicks, so READ AND APPLY...............
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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