"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Should I just start approaching groups of girls?

ElStud

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Alright, so me and the friend go out to this hangout place with a lot of stores and a lot people and thus a lot of hot girls. But the problem, most of the girls we saw there were in groups. This wouldn't be such a problem if I was familiar with gaming multiple sets. See, most of my experience talking to girls has been talking to girls who are alone, so that's it's a one on one thing.

My question with approaching groups is, how would you actually take it somewhere? How would you convey you're sexually interested in one girl and not another? I've seen many groups of girls where there's one hot girl, but the friend isn't so hot. How do you over all isolate the situation so you can get the digits of the girl's number that you're interested in?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yes, approach a group of girls or any girl(s) your interested in.

ElStud, I want you to try something out..

Forget about all the PUA/Player sh!t for a second. Just go up to these girls with no intentions of trying to seduce them. Get to know them like you would with anybody. The less your worrying in your head about what to say or wondering if they like me. The more easier the situation becomes.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Yes, approach a group of girls or any girl(s) your interested in.

ElStud, I want you to try something out..

Forget about all the PUA/Player sh!t for a second. Just go up to these girls with no intentions of trying to seduce them. Get to know them like you would with anybody. The less your worrying in your head about what to say or wondering if they like me. The more easier the situation becomes.
Well my intentions are already limited. I'm not that guy who approaches girls with the intent of sex and numbers. But I figure if I approach I might as well make it go somewhere which why I asked how to isolate her from her friend.
 

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ELSTUD!!!!! READ THIS start from chapter 7 and read to the end . it answers a LOT of your questions. DO NOT try and follow its methods exactly as they are laid out but try and read between the lines and get some understanding.


you should probably also read pages that are before chapter 7 as they explain a lot too. But yeah if my memory serves me right, chapter 7 and 8 explain alot of the problems you have posted on here concerning flakes and numbers and groups of chicks, so READ AND APPLY...............
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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