"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I just pop the question?

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Okay, in HS and I've been messing with this girl for a weeks. First, before I even go deeper into the story, we don't even talk that much in person but we used to text a lot. She made me a little card for my birthday and stuff and mentioned how she really likes me and I may be her boyfriend and that today would be nice but any other day would work. I paid no attention to that last part until the evening when I actually comprehended what she said.

So I sent her a text (her friend gave it to me since she left early) saying how I loved the card and how I appreciated it and stuff but I guess that didn't work well with her and I heard her talking to her friend saying **** me and stuff I guess because I didn't ask her out but she still displays interest. Now I wouldn't mind being exclusive with her but we only been talking for like maybe 4-5 weeks. Seems kinda early to me to ask but I still want to be with her. I've been single for like a year and a half so I don't typically rush into things.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Go read DJBC
 
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read the achive forum and the tips forum.

you wont get all the answers there. in fact, you will probably start asking more.
 
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PokerStar said:
read the achive forum and the tips forum.

you wont get all the answers there. in fact, you will probably start asking more.
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Agreed.

GetTrippy - you're talking about getting exclusive with a girl you havent even really dated.

Go to the Tips section or the Archive and start reading.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GetTrippy said:
Don't really know where to look for it.
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You're missing the whole point. If you have to post a question on an internet forum to decide wether or not to ask out a girl whom you've flirted with then you have no game and no confidence. Go read DJBC, get some balls and sarge in the real world; it's a teenage girl, not Operation Market Garden, just do it already.
 
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