"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I just pop the question?

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Okay, in HS and I've been messing with this girl for a weeks. First, before I even go deeper into the story, we don't even talk that much in person but we used to text a lot. She made me a little card for my birthday and stuff and mentioned how she really likes me and I may be her boyfriend and that today would be nice but any other day would work. I paid no attention to that last part until the evening when I actually comprehended what she said.

So I sent her a text (her friend gave it to me since she left early) saying how I loved the card and how I appreciated it and stuff but I guess that didn't work well with her and I heard her talking to her friend saying **** me and stuff I guess because I didn't ask her out but she still displays interest. Now I wouldn't mind being exclusive with her but we only been talking for like maybe 4-5 weeks. Seems kinda early to me to ask but I still want to be with her. I've been single for like a year and a half so I don't typically rush into things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Von_S

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Go read DJBC
 

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read the achive forum and the tips forum.

you wont get all the answers there. in fact, you will probably start asking more.
 

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PokerStar said:
read the achive forum and the tips forum.

you wont get all the answers there. in fact, you will probably start asking more.
Agreed.

GetTrippy - you're talking about getting exclusive with a girl you havent even really dated.

Go to the Tips section or the Archive and start reading.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Von_S

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GetTrippy said:
Don't really know where to look for it.
You're missing the whole point. If you have to post a question on an internet forum to decide wether or not to ask out a girl whom you've flirted with then you have no game and no confidence. Go read DJBC, get some balls and sarge in the real world; it's a teenage girl, not Operation Market Garden, just do it already.
 
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