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Should I IM her or would this seem weird?

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Ok I don't want to make this another should i Im her thread....but here's the deal. Yesterday this really hot girl left i didnt even know was my friend on facebook left me a comment saying happy bday. That surprised me so of coarse I sent her a message.....something along the lines of "Wanna remind me why we havent talked yet? You're gorgeous and you listen to great music. So idk about you but I'd love to get to know ya."

Well she replied with "thank you hun ;) and the best part is we're both going to the same school." So to that i sent her something like "Yea we are! So tell me, I know there's more to you than just your looks, so what makes you special?"

I sent that this morning and she hasn't responded although I'm sure she saw it b/c she changed her facebook status like 2 hrs ago. Her away on aim (sn on facebook) is "i have tickets to see Trace Adkins, Chris Cagle, and Eric Church tonight at State Fair's Country Fest for $20... if anyone wants to go with me give me a call. I reallllyyyyyyy wanna go! "

Should I wait and see if she first replies to my message or should I just IM her and say something like hey ill go with ya. She's been idle for a couple of hrs so idk if she'd see it today anymore...

What would you guys do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No im not at the concert....she was idle so I'm guessing she's not even home.
Let me take a wild guess....I shouldn't have complimented her?

Ok, I'll admit it, I do need help....what would you guys have said?

Say, what's a good opening line to use with facebook girls who I'll be going to college with in about a month?
 
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Man you came off sounding really needy, obsessive, lustful, creepy... you get the picture.

Is this some kind of joke? You can't be serious
 

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uwoshdave said:
No im not at the concert....she was idle so I'm guessing she's not even home.
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So you didn't contact her at all? This is the biggest reason why you're sitting home on your computer tonight and she's out having fun.

This is a problem I'm seeing more and more as I read the posts on this board. So many people get hung up on analyzing every situation to death that they fail to take action. I admit I'm guilty of this at times too. It's ok to read the posts and wonder "what does this mean?", "should I do this?", or "how do I do this?" but it all means nothing if you don't take any action.
 
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