"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I IM her or would this seem weird?

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Ok I don't want to make this another should i Im her thread....but here's the deal. Yesterday this really hot girl left i didnt even know was my friend on facebook left me a comment saying happy bday. That surprised me so of coarse I sent her a message.....something along the lines of "Wanna remind me why we havent talked yet? You're gorgeous and you listen to great music. So idk about you but I'd love to get to know ya."

Well she replied with "thank you hun ;) and the best part is we're both going to the same school." So to that i sent her something like "Yea we are! So tell me, I know there's more to you than just your looks, so what makes you special?"

I sent that this morning and she hasn't responded although I'm sure she saw it b/c she changed her facebook status like 2 hrs ago. Her away on aim (sn on facebook) is "i have tickets to see Trace Adkins, Chris Cagle, and Eric Church tonight at State Fair's Country Fest for $20... if anyone wants to go with me give me a call. I reallllyyyyyyy wanna go! "

Should I wait and see if she first replies to my message or should I just IM her and say something like hey ill go with ya. She's been idle for a couple of hrs so idk if she'd see it today anymore...

What would you guys do?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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No im not at the concert....she was idle so I'm guessing she's not even home.
Let me take a wild guess....I shouldn't have complimented her?

Ok, I'll admit it, I do need help....what would you guys have said?

Say, what's a good opening line to use with facebook girls who I'll be going to college with in about a month?
 
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Man you came off sounding really needy, obsessive, lustful, creepy... you get the picture.

Is this some kind of joke? You can't be serious
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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uwoshdave said:
No im not at the concert....she was idle so I'm guessing she's not even home.
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So you didn't contact her at all? This is the biggest reason why you're sitting home on your computer tonight and she's out having fun.

This is a problem I'm seeing more and more as I read the posts on this board. So many people get hung up on analyzing every situation to death that they fail to take action. I admit I'm guilty of this at times too. It's ok to read the posts and wonder "what does this mean?", "should I do this?", or "how do I do this?" but it all means nothing if you don't take any action.
 
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