Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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should i ignore her at prom

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ight guys i need some advice here, prom is on friday

well me and this girl had been talking and it turns out she really hates getting involved wiht guys because she gets reallllly jealous and its not enjoyable for her... she definately likes me i can tell and she told me that she liked me alot.- however she doesnt WANT to like me because of how she starts acting and feeling when she gets involved in relationships... ok so she tells me this and is like "we just need to get over each other" or some bs-- so i say fine, and she still likes me its obvious and we still kinda flirt- my question is,,, should i dance with her at prom, or ignore the hell out of her and try to make her want me more than a friend and try to start something back up?--- what do you guys think, and please some real advice here guys
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rocko

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well, you said she likes you right? then why freeze her out, it sounds like she already wants your nuts and that theres no reason to really ignore her unless shes being stupid or acting jealous. Prom after parties + alcohol = good time for you my friend, have fun
 

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Yeah, she wants you, so you're in ... eventually. One thing to keep in mind is that gals have hormonal cycles that make them go hot and cold. If she's "on," and sees all these other people getting all into each other, envy will kick in, and she'll want some action of her own. Whatever the case, don't make a beeline to her right at the start (unless, of course, she initiates), but just have a good time, and let things happen naturally. When she acknowledges you or you cross paths, go ahead and dance with her, and have a good time.

Remember the general idea of physical flirting and turning up the heat: tease and tantalize, and go just a bit s-l-o-w-e-r than she wants. Have fun!

Then write us about how to "train" her out of her jealous ways later. ;)
 

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yeah, but see thats the thing, shes trying to make me jealous too, and she lieks me, but she doesnt WANT to like me, so she is trying to get over me, but still tryin to make me like her, like shes tryin to keep me at a certian distance for if she changes her mind, so im confused as to waht to do-- like we have talked about it before and she said she wants to just be friends cuase of how she acts when she likes someone, i know its weird, so what do you guys think now
 

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If you don't want her sexually then don't do anything, but chase her.

If you want her sexually do this: Acknowlegde her by talking, getting good report, then once on the dance floor, grind with another girl (about the same level of attraction HB8 etc.) and ignore the target. She'll try to get your attention, but don't give it to her. After about 2 failled attempts to get your attention, go behind her do a few butt bumping. If she gets into it (starts bumping back), turn around and grind with her.

The dance floor is a great way to get her in the mood for sex. ITs the closes thing to it. ITs sex with clothes on.

Best post:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26523

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50818
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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