"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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should i ignore her at prom

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ight guys i need some advice here, prom is on friday

well me and this girl had been talking and it turns out she really hates getting involved wiht guys because she gets reallllly jealous and its not enjoyable for her... she definately likes me i can tell and she told me that she liked me alot.- however she doesnt WANT to like me because of how she starts acting and feeling when she gets involved in relationships... ok so she tells me this and is like "we just need to get over each other" or some bs-- so i say fine, and she still likes me its obvious and we still kinda flirt- my question is,,, should i dance with her at prom, or ignore the hell out of her and try to make her want me more than a friend and try to start something back up?--- what do you guys think, and please some real advice here guys
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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well, you said she likes you right? then why freeze her out, it sounds like she already wants your nuts and that theres no reason to really ignore her unless shes being stupid or acting jealous. Prom after parties + alcohol = good time for you my friend, have fun
 

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Yeah, she wants you, so you're in ... eventually. One thing to keep in mind is that gals have hormonal cycles that make them go hot and cold. If she's "on," and sees all these other people getting all into each other, envy will kick in, and she'll want some action of her own. Whatever the case, don't make a beeline to her right at the start (unless, of course, she initiates), but just have a good time, and let things happen naturally. When she acknowledges you or you cross paths, go ahead and dance with her, and have a good time.

Remember the general idea of physical flirting and turning up the heat: tease and tantalize, and go just a bit s-l-o-w-e-r than she wants. Have fun!

Then write us about how to "train" her out of her jealous ways later. ;)
 

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yeah, but see thats the thing, shes trying to make me jealous too, and she lieks me, but she doesnt WANT to like me, so she is trying to get over me, but still tryin to make me like her, like shes tryin to keep me at a certian distance for if she changes her mind, so im confused as to waht to do-- like we have talked about it before and she said she wants to just be friends cuase of how she acts when she likes someone, i know its weird, so what do you guys think now
 

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If you don't want her sexually then don't do anything, but chase her.

If you want her sexually do this: Acknowlegde her by talking, getting good report, then once on the dance floor, grind with another girl (about the same level of attraction HB8 etc.) and ignore the target. She'll try to get your attention, but don't give it to her. After about 2 failled attempts to get your attention, go behind her do a few butt bumping. If she gets into it (starts bumping back), turn around and grind with her.

The dance floor is a great way to get her in the mood for sex. ITs the closes thing to it. ITs sex with clothes on.

Best post:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26523

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50818
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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