"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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should i ignore her at prom

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ight guys i need some advice here, prom is on friday

well me and this girl had been talking and it turns out she really hates getting involved wiht guys because she gets reallllly jealous and its not enjoyable for her... she definately likes me i can tell and she told me that she liked me alot.- however she doesnt WANT to like me because of how she starts acting and feeling when she gets involved in relationships... ok so she tells me this and is like "we just need to get over each other" or some bs-- so i say fine, and she still likes me its obvious and we still kinda flirt- my question is,,, should i dance with her at prom, or ignore the hell out of her and try to make her want me more than a friend and try to start something back up?--- what do you guys think, and please some real advice here guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well, you said she likes you right? then why freeze her out, it sounds like she already wants your nuts and that theres no reason to really ignore her unless shes being stupid or acting jealous. Prom after parties + alcohol = good time for you my friend, have fun
 

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Yeah, she wants you, so you're in ... eventually. One thing to keep in mind is that gals have hormonal cycles that make them go hot and cold. If she's "on," and sees all these other people getting all into each other, envy will kick in, and she'll want some action of her own. Whatever the case, don't make a beeline to her right at the start (unless, of course, she initiates), but just have a good time, and let things happen naturally. When she acknowledges you or you cross paths, go ahead and dance with her, and have a good time.

Remember the general idea of physical flirting and turning up the heat: tease and tantalize, and go just a bit s-l-o-w-e-r than she wants. Have fun!

Then write us about how to "train" her out of her jealous ways later. ;)
 

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yeah, but see thats the thing, shes trying to make me jealous too, and she lieks me, but she doesnt WANT to like me, so she is trying to get over me, but still tryin to make me like her, like shes tryin to keep me at a certian distance for if she changes her mind, so im confused as to waht to do-- like we have talked about it before and she said she wants to just be friends cuase of how she acts when she likes someone, i know its weird, so what do you guys think now
 

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If you don't want her sexually then don't do anything, but chase her.

If you want her sexually do this: Acknowlegde her by talking, getting good report, then once on the dance floor, grind with another girl (about the same level of attraction HB8 etc.) and ignore the target. She'll try to get your attention, but don't give it to her. After about 2 failled attempts to get your attention, go behind her do a few butt bumping. If she gets into it (starts bumping back), turn around and grind with her.

The dance floor is a great way to get her in the mood for sex. ITs the closes thing to it. ITs sex with clothes on.

Best post:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26523

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50818
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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