"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I have sex with my mentor

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I see this lady to vent because this year has been really stressful on me and I would lose my friends and gf if I were to constantly complain and whine to them. I thought this woman was just being flirty, but she was asking to come over my place after we were done and gave me a handjob tonight too. She's also in her 40s too, so I do not know about doing this at all. Plus, I value her services.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Willie Naylor

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I see this lady to vent because this year has been really stressful on me and I would lose my friends and gf if I were to constantly complain and whine to them. I thought this woman was just being flirty, but she was asking to come over my place after we were done and gave me a handjob tonight too. She's also in her 40s too, so I do not know about doing this at all. Plus, I value her services.
You have two options -

a) have sex with her

or....

2) don't have sex with her



Let us know what you decide.
 

corrector

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If you are looking for moral advice, then you should not have sex with someone you are not married to.
 

Barrister

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I see this lady to vent because this year has been really stressful on me and I would lose my friends and gf if I were to constantly complain and whine to them. I thought this woman was just being flirty, but she was asking to come over my place after we were done and gave me a handjob tonight too. She's also in her 40s too, so I do not know about doing this at all. Plus, I value her services.
Whatever you decide it sounds like you now need a new “mentor.” Any advice she gives now is going to be tainted by the attraction you both aren’t hiding for each other any longer. She can no longer be unbiased.
 

mrskinnypantz

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I was going to be an azzhole and answer your question with ,another question

“CAN you have sex with her?’’

I think you answered that..
Now I only have 2 more questions

is she attractive and what are you waiting for?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you finish from a handjob you haven't finished the job....
 
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