"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I have number closed?

doctor1996

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went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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marmel75

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went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
I've dated a few women I've gotten numbers from as cashiers at the supermarket and banks...if they like you it won't matter, they will give it to you.
 

Masculinity

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went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
Yes, you should have number closed. But it's not over. You may run into her again. Don't pvssy out next time.
 

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She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's.
Ask her out if she is in her late 20s.
Number close if she is in her early 30s.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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