"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I have number closed?

doctor1996

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went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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doctor1996 said:
went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
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I've dated a few women I've gotten numbers from as cashiers at the supermarket and banks...if they like you it won't matter, they will give it to you.
 
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doctor1996 said:
went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
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Yes, you should have number closed. But it's not over. You may run into her again. Don't pvssy out next time.
 
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doctor1996 said:
She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's.
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Ask her out if she is in her late 20s.
Number close if she is in her early 30s.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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