"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I have number closed?

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went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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doctor1996 said:
went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
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I've dated a few women I've gotten numbers from as cashiers at the supermarket and banks...if they like you it won't matter, they will give it to you.
 
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doctor1996 said:
went to go get dinner with a friend. As we picked our food, I asked the cashier, "how are you?" And she replied, "good, I've been here all day. How are you" with nervous laughing and handing my friends food to me out of pure nervousness. She got red as well. She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's. What do you guys think of number closing with girls at work?
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Yes, you should have number closed. But it's not over. You may run into her again. Don't pvssy out next time.
 
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doctor1996 said:
She wasn't the most attractive but she had a nice body. I'm just curious, if I should have number closed. I think she was in her late 20's.
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Ask her out if she is in her late 20s.
Number close if she is in her early 30s.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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