Okay, here's the situation. I'm in the club just dancing and enjoying the music, approaching sets and all. So meanwhile, while I'm moving through the dance floor, I swear this drunk dude grabs my pants. I seriously wanted to beat the dude's ass at that point, but should I have?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Should I have beat this dude's ass?
- Thread starter ElStud
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
You want to risk legal trouble and serious physical injury because you think someone grabbed your pants?
I think you should seek anger management.
I think you should seek anger management.
moneyisking
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ya unless the dude tongue kissed you, then proudly deliver a right hook followed by a stiff jab. otherwise, hey, even a dude thinks you're hot, so go get em hos; but if you're for sure the guy grabbed your azz, tell him you're straight and you don't appreciate those kind of behavior and tell him to piss off
They usually grab from real far away, and after you've passed, so they have plausible deniability. Groping another man is an act so sick that it's really a plea for help (even if it's hidden behind a veil of plausible deniability). Letting himself be identified groping another man is an exceptionally loud plea for help. The guy is begging for you to help correct his sick behavior. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, grabbing someone is assault. Grabbing an ass is also sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, making a grab for a man's wallet is attempted robbery. If you feel him grab or hit at you while doing it, it's mugging (aggravated robbery). You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
In the real world, disrespecting another man earns a swift and violent response. He disrespected you. Kick the sh1t out of him.
the_stig, you are wrong and you couldn't be more wrong. ElStud was the one who was violently attacked. The groper is the one who risked physical retribution and serious legal problems. The groper is the one who has mental issues.
moneyisking and the_stig, you two sound like faggots. You're defending a self-hating man-hater who tried to emasculate a DJ because he appeared to be confident and successful in courting women. You two need to get your heads out of the feminist toilet. You two seriously need to man up. Maybe go get jobs in construction and throw away your computers and smart phones.
Legally, grabbing someone is assault. Grabbing an ass is also sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, making a grab for a man's wallet is attempted robbery. If you feel him grab or hit at you while doing it, it's mugging (aggravated robbery). You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
In the real world, disrespecting another man earns a swift and violent response. He disrespected you. Kick the sh1t out of him.
the_stig, you are wrong and you couldn't be more wrong. ElStud was the one who was violently attacked. The groper is the one who risked physical retribution and serious legal problems. The groper is the one who has mental issues.
moneyisking and the_stig, you two sound like faggots. You're defending a self-hating man-hater who tried to emasculate a DJ because he appeared to be confident and successful in courting women. You two need to get your heads out of the feminist toilet. You two seriously need to man up. Maybe go get jobs in construction and throw away your computers and smart phones.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
From getting rejected by 2s to getting escorted off campus by security to losing his virginity to his friend's sloppy thirds (not seconds) to getting his crotch grabbed another man.
Gotta love El Stud threads.
Gotta love El Stud threads.
He grabbed your pants...and that's it. He didn't do this so he could take you down and pass your guard nor did he throw a punch/kick. What did he SAY directly after? Was he angry or threatening in demeanor? You will get grilled by the prosecutors if you don't have a seriously good reason to beat him up...but then again I've seen a chick get knocked out and the dude escaped through the crowd lol.
who cares...that wouldn't even bother me......unless he had a bad attitude4 about it and was confrontational...i mean, sure it's not comfortable, but it definitely aint worth getting into a fight over and risking arrest and/or attacked by bouncers...
Upside
Senior Don Juan
El Stud! :rockon:
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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