Okay, here's the situation. I'm in the club just dancing and enjoying the music, approaching sets and all. So meanwhile, while I'm moving through the dance floor, I swear this drunk dude grabs my pants. I seriously wanted to beat the dude's ass at that point, but should I have?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Should I have beat this dude's ass?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
You want to risk legal trouble and serious physical injury because you think someone grabbed your pants?
I think you should seek anger management.
I think you should seek anger management.
moneyisking
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ya unless the dude tongue kissed you, then proudly deliver a right hook followed by a stiff jab. otherwise, hey, even a dude thinks you're hot, so go get em hos; but if you're for sure the guy grabbed your azz, tell him you're straight and you don't appreciate those kind of behavior and tell him to piss off
They usually grab from real far away, and after you've passed, so they have plausible deniability. Groping another man is an act so sick that it's really a plea for help (even if it's hidden behind a veil of plausible deniability). Letting himself be identified groping another man is an exceptionally loud plea for help. The guy is begging for you to help correct his sick behavior. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, grabbing someone is assault. Grabbing an ass is also sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, making a grab for a man's wallet is attempted robbery. If you feel him grab or hit at you while doing it, it's mugging (aggravated robbery). You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
In the real world, disrespecting another man earns a swift and violent response. He disrespected you. Kick the sh1t out of him.
the_stig, you are wrong and you couldn't be more wrong. ElStud was the one who was violently attacked. The groper is the one who risked physical retribution and serious legal problems. The groper is the one who has mental issues.
moneyisking and the_stig, you two sound like faggots. You're defending a self-hating man-hater who tried to emasculate a DJ because he appeared to be confident and successful in courting women. You two need to get your heads out of the feminist toilet. You two seriously need to man up. Maybe go get jobs in construction and throw away your computers and smart phones.
Legally, grabbing someone is assault. Grabbing an ass is also sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, making a grab for a man's wallet is attempted robbery. If you feel him grab or hit at you while doing it, it's mugging (aggravated robbery). You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
In the real world, disrespecting another man earns a swift and violent response. He disrespected you. Kick the sh1t out of him.
the_stig, you are wrong and you couldn't be more wrong. ElStud was the one who was violently attacked. The groper is the one who risked physical retribution and serious legal problems. The groper is the one who has mental issues.
moneyisking and the_stig, you two sound like faggots. You're defending a self-hating man-hater who tried to emasculate a DJ because he appeared to be confident and successful in courting women. You two need to get your heads out of the feminist toilet. You two seriously need to man up. Maybe go get jobs in construction and throw away your computers and smart phones.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
From getting rejected by 2s to getting escorted off campus by security to losing his virginity to his friend's sloppy thirds (not seconds) to getting his crotch grabbed another man.
Gotta love El Stud threads.
Gotta love El Stud threads.
He grabbed your pants...and that's it. He didn't do this so he could take you down and pass your guard nor did he throw a punch/kick. What did he SAY directly after? Was he angry or threatening in demeanor? You will get grilled by the prosecutors if you don't have a seriously good reason to beat him up...but then again I've seen a chick get knocked out and the dude escaped through the crowd lol.
who cares...that wouldn't even bother me......unless he had a bad attitude4 about it and was confrontational...i mean, sure it's not comfortable, but it definitely aint worth getting into a fight over and risking arrest and/or attacked by bouncers...
Upside
Senior Don Juan
El Stud! :rockon:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
