Okay, here's the situation. I'm in the club just dancing and enjoying the music, approaching sets and all. So meanwhile, while I'm moving through the dance floor, I swear this drunk dude grabs my pants. I seriously wanted to beat the dude's ass at that point, but should I have?
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Should I have beat this dude's ass?
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the_stig
Senior Don Juan
You want to risk legal trouble and serious physical injury because you think someone grabbed your pants?
I think you should seek anger management.
I think you should seek anger management.
moneyisking
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ya unless the dude tongue kissed you, then proudly deliver a right hook followed by a stiff jab. otherwise, hey, even a dude thinks you're hot, so go get em hos; but if you're for sure the guy grabbed your azz, tell him you're straight and you don't appreciate those kind of behavior and tell him to piss off
They usually grab from real far away, and after you've passed, so they have plausible deniability. Groping another man is an act so sick that it's really a plea for help (even if it's hidden behind a veil of plausible deniability). Letting himself be identified groping another man is an exceptionally loud plea for help. The guy is begging for you to help correct his sick behavior. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, grabbing someone is assault. Grabbing an ass is also sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, making a grab for a man's wallet is attempted robbery. If you feel him grab or hit at you while doing it, it's mugging (aggravated robbery). You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
In the real world, disrespecting another man earns a swift and violent response. He disrespected you. Kick the sh1t out of him.
the_stig, you are wrong and you couldn't be more wrong. ElStud was the one who was violently attacked. The groper is the one who risked physical retribution and serious legal problems. The groper is the one who has mental issues.
moneyisking and the_stig, you two sound like faggots. You're defending a self-hating man-hater who tried to emasculate a DJ because he appeared to be confident and successful in courting women. You two need to get your heads out of the feminist toilet. You two seriously need to man up. Maybe go get jobs in construction and throw away your computers and smart phones.
Legally, grabbing someone is assault. Grabbing an ass is also sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
Legally, making a grab for a man's wallet is attempted robbery. If you feel him grab or hit at you while doing it, it's mugging (aggravated robbery). You have every right to defend yourself from what you believe will be coming next. Kick the sh1t out of him.
In the real world, disrespecting another man earns a swift and violent response. He disrespected you. Kick the sh1t out of him.
the_stig, you are wrong and you couldn't be more wrong. ElStud was the one who was violently attacked. The groper is the one who risked physical retribution and serious legal problems. The groper is the one who has mental issues.
moneyisking and the_stig, you two sound like faggots. You're defending a self-hating man-hater who tried to emasculate a DJ because he appeared to be confident and successful in courting women. You two need to get your heads out of the feminist toilet. You two seriously need to man up. Maybe go get jobs in construction and throw away your computers and smart phones.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
From getting rejected by 2s to getting escorted off campus by security to losing his virginity to his friend's sloppy thirds (not seconds) to getting his crotch grabbed another man.
Gotta love El Stud threads.
Gotta love El Stud threads.
He grabbed your pants...and that's it. He didn't do this so he could take you down and pass your guard nor did he throw a punch/kick. What did he SAY directly after? Was he angry or threatening in demeanor? You will get grilled by the prosecutors if you don't have a seriously good reason to beat him up...but then again I've seen a chick get knocked out and the dude escaped through the crowd lol.
who cares...that wouldn't even bother me......unless he had a bad attitude4 about it and was confrontational...i mean, sure it's not comfortable, but it definitely aint worth getting into a fight over and risking arrest and/or attacked by bouncers...
Upside
Senior Don Juan
El Stud! :rockon:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
