"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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should I go?

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it wasn't really an invite.. i started talking about the dorms in hope that she'd invite me in but i didn't expect it and was caught by surprise when she said 'you should see them.' i didn't take that as a come in..

besides when she vacated she made some joke about she only cares if a bf looks a certain way not her friends.. that is nail in the coffin LJBF'd.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gangster Of Love said:
You're gonna do what you want anyway, so why you keep flip-floppin' back and forth? Stop being a girlyman and deside.

Go do your thing, then come back and we can dissect all your moves, and at worst, you will learn a lot and apply them towards your next interaction with the next hottie.

At best, she'll be interested a little more than she is now, and we can design a plan.
do you think at this point there's nothing really i can do except be a friend to her and get intro's to her hot HB friends?
 
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