"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should I go?

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it wasn't really an invite.. i started talking about the dorms in hope that she'd invite me in but i didn't expect it and was caught by surprise when she said 'you should see them.' i didn't take that as a come in..

besides when she vacated she made some joke about she only cares if a bf looks a certain way not her friends.. that is nail in the coffin LJBF'd.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gangster Of Love said:
You're gonna do what you want anyway, so why you keep flip-floppin' back and forth? Stop being a girlyman and deside.

Go do your thing, then come back and we can dissect all your moves, and at worst, you will learn a lot and apply them towards your next interaction with the next hottie.

At best, she'll be interested a little more than she is now, and we can design a plan.
do you think at this point there's nothing really i can do except be a friend to her and get intro's to her hot HB friends?
 
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