"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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should I go?

pete101

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it wasn't really an invite.. i started talking about the dorms in hope that she'd invite me in but i didn't expect it and was caught by surprise when she said 'you should see them.' i didn't take that as a come in..

besides when she vacated she made some joke about she only cares if a bf looks a certain way not her friends.. that is nail in the coffin LJBF'd.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

pete101

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Gangster Of Love said:
You're gonna do what you want anyway, so why you keep flip-floppin' back and forth? Stop being a girlyman and deside.

Go do your thing, then come back and we can dissect all your moves, and at worst, you will learn a lot and apply them towards your next interaction with the next hottie.

At best, she'll be interested a little more than she is now, and we can design a plan.
do you think at this point there's nothing really i can do except be a friend to her and get intro's to her hot HB friends?
 
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