"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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should I go?

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it wasn't really an invite.. i started talking about the dorms in hope that she'd invite me in but i didn't expect it and was caught by surprise when she said 'you should see them.' i didn't take that as a come in..

besides when she vacated she made some joke about she only cares if a bf looks a certain way not her friends.. that is nail in the coffin LJBF'd.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gangster Of Love said:
You're gonna do what you want anyway, so why you keep flip-floppin' back and forth? Stop being a girlyman and deside.

Go do your thing, then come back and we can dissect all your moves, and at worst, you will learn a lot and apply them towards your next interaction with the next hottie.

At best, she'll be interested a little more than she is now, and we can design a plan.
do you think at this point there's nothing really i can do except be a friend to her and get intro's to her hot HB friends?
 
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